LOL VagalTone my ego is bursting with pride! NOOOO look what you've done!!! Must purify immediately. |
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I am sorry Vince, but you seem like a cool wise guy ! |
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Check your memory, did any suprising event happpen ? does the present make sense ? visualize what you will do when lucid, and how. Reality check as reminder of your intention to lucid dream tonight. Sleep as good as you can; when going to sleep, relax and invite whatever comes with curiosity. Grab your dream journal immediately as you awake and write everything you can recall (if only when you wake up for good). Keep calm, positive and persistent, and don't forget to have fun along the way
LOL VagalTone my ego is bursting with pride! NOOOO look what you've done!!! Must purify immediately. |
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Not sure if it was said here before or another thread, but the +like system is a handy tool for staff when you want to "sign off" that you read something and a reply isn't necessary. Probably 90% of my +likes are from staff-related posts. Or when I would post the totm threads in the past. "Oh look, I see the new totms '+like' ". |
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I don't think anyone gives a pocketful of fuck when it comes to likes tbh. Maybe the first 100 or so, but even then it's pretty meh. =/ |
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Last edited by GavinGill; 03-25-2015 at 07:01 PM.
Not everyone cares about eliminating or reducing the ego. And you can be selfless while having a self. |
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I am sorry but this thread is also reminding this vidéo (again) |
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Last edited by Kaan; 03-25-2015 at 10:11 PM.
Personally, I accept that by allowing my self, my ego, to exist and become attached to things, I receive both pleasure and pain. |
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This pleasure you speak of is impermanent and unsatisfactory in nature. By eliminating the attachments of the ego, one finds a pleasure that is not dependent upon external conditions. This is a higher form of pleasure that is unconditioned, arising from the natural state of peace and joy that consciousness exists in when it is not being manipulated by the false pains and pleasures of the ego. It's not about having neither pain nor pleasure. It's about eliminating suffering and finding a pure and lasting form of happiness. |
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Impermanent? Why is this bad? Impermanent pleasure is a necessary pair to impermanent pain. One does not have permanent pain (usually) thus one does not have permanent pleasure. |
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The downside to impermanent pleasure, aside from the fact that many times it arises from attachment and delusion and is a product of a hungry ego (in other words it is born from unwholesome mind states, false beliefs, and lack of wisdom), is that often times what is left when the pleasure is gone is suffering and craving for more. This leads to a cycle of attachment, craving for pleasure, seeking pleasure, loosing pleasure, suffering, craving, seeking, and so on. |
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Yes, the love for my boyfriend is dependant on the condition that my boyfriend exists and, when he dies, the condition that he has existed. Perhaps you feel it's wrong to feel attached to temporary things, but I do not. My love for him is satisfactory. Yes, many relationships are unsatisfactory, but that does not logically mean that all relationships are. |
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I don't think it is wrong to be attached to temporary things. Unwise is the word I would use. It is very possible to have a loving relationship without forming attachments. It's a matter of understanding the impermanent nature of the relationship, accepting it completely, and allowing that which is inevitable to be so without desiring to control that which is uncontrollable. |
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Though maybe we're a little off topic, I feel compelled to contribute. |
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I agree, although there are various definitions of ego, so it's all relative to the particular meaning that one assigns the word. Some simply take "ego" to be a person's sense of identity, their sense of self, and in this way ego is simply a tool which we use to navigate and relate to this reality. Nothing wrong with that, right? Of course, some create an identity based on delusions and attachments, and this is usually problematic to say the least. |
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