What happens if you let the girl down gently and tell her you don't want sex? |
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Hey guys! Wow I never posted here in a LONG time. I'm able to lucid dream pretty much 3-4 times every night using the dream exit technique. For a long time I've always had this problem. Each time I lucid dream, I end up spawning some hot girl or she will come on her own and things go down or uphill from there depending on how you look at it :p . Anyways, by the time I wake up for the 3rd time to have my final lucid dream and I really tell myself I'm not going to do that and instead I'm going to explore and create worlds, I end up not being able to fall back asleep. I dunno if it's these teen hormones or what but I can never just have a lot of fun dreaming without having sex with a girl and waking up after. What can I do? Honestly I've just come down to creating new things and exploring while bringing the girl along side for when she's needed lol. I feel like I can do so much things in my dream but I end up doing the same thing over and over whether I want to or not . |
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What happens if you let the girl down gently and tell her you don't want sex? |
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Lucid Dreams: 14
Lucid Goals Achieved: 10/40
Lucid Goal list: http://cyanidebaby.tadalist.com/lists/1879772/public
LOL man seems like alot dudes have this problem. If you want to fix it for sure what Id suggest doing right before you go to have an LD, is masturbate. If you get it over with before you go into the dream world you'll find that your animal instincts will subside and you'll be able to do what you really want. Now if you're having LDs late in the night, the only thing you really can do is get better with your self-control, and this becomes easier when you have a definite plan for what you're going to do once you get into the dream. It really helps when what you right down in your plan is something that is really powerful to you like for instance- saving the world, becoming a super hero, or anything else that has a deep deep meaning to you that you really want to experience. Now for the masturbation thing, if you do do it dont go over board, as you might get addicted. But in the long run, practicing with your self control is what'll help the most. |
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"If we doubted our fears instead of doubting our dreams, imagine how much in life we'd accomplish." ~Joel Brown
"Your background and circumstances may have influenced who you are, but you are responsible for who you become." ~Darren Hardy
Goals:
-Become Lucid in every dream every night
-Perfect the time dilation watch
-Continue to have a dream plan for most of my lucid dreams
I was gonna say that too but I thought it might sound awkward coming from some strange girl :p |
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Lucid Dreams: 14
Lucid Goals Achieved: 10/40
Lucid Goal list: http://cyanidebaby.tadalist.com/lists/1879772/public
You have to believe you can escape, like REALLY, deep down believe it, not just try to believe it. |
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Lucid Dreams: 14
Lucid Goals Achieved: 10/40
Lucid Goal list: http://cyanidebaby.tadalist.com/lists/1879772/public
"If we doubted our fears instead of doubting our dreams, imagine how much in life we'd accomplish." ~Joel Brown
"Your background and circumstances may have influenced who you are, but you are responsible for who you become." ~Darren Hardy
Goals:
-Become Lucid in every dream every night
-Perfect the time dilation watch
-Continue to have a dream plan for most of my lucid dreams
I'm a woman, this same thing happened to me. |
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I wish I could help with this but I'm facing the same problem XD. I wouldn't even say setting goals helps because I have tons but DCs are always tempting. Also since I've pretty much mastered my manifestation that doesn't help either. |
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DILD: 150 | DEILD: 8 | WILD: 20
Try saving it for last, or somewhere in between the things you'd rather do? Giving in right away might incline your intent toward that at least for a little while. |
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"you will not transform this house of prayer into a house of thieves"
I sometimes face this problem too but I never get to doing it, I wake up quiet quickly after I get the urge. It almost feels like the urge comes externally like I'm being mind-controlled or something. |
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If you read this do a reality check, you will thank me later...
It seems like dreaming is somehow connected to the parts of us that are both more musical and more sexual than in waking life. I'm not sure what that means, but the pattern has been undeniable in my own experience. When I first started lucid dreaming, sexual incidents were frequent and hard to avoid. That wasn't necessarily a bad thing, but it often used up valuable dream time and distracted me from the tasks I'd deliberately planned. At the beginning it was even worse because having dream sex would promptly wake me up, but over time I learned how to follow through and remain in a stable dream state. Eventually, even the interest in dream sex waned to the point where it's now almost never an issue unless I want it to be. So in that way, it's a bit like growing up in your physical body! |
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You guys/girls think so much about it. "DC approaches for sex" "DC is blown into oblivion the next second" there, problem solved. |
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Could be your teen hormones, yes, but relax please, there are worse things to experience than 3-4 times sex each night (LOL honestly I wish I had your problem, I'm still struggling with waking up due to excitement when it's about to happen). |
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It doesn't matter whether this is a dream or not.
It's a beautiful gift anyways!
Lmao |
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Try multi tasking. You can explore and create your worlds as you put it, while having sex at the same time. I actually tried it once, when I didn't want to waste my dream on sex. I just picked her up and flew out the window with her. Worked out well enough. Until I woke up in the middle of flying and f...... |
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