Quote Originally Posted by Marvo View Post
What doesn't make sense? That your sexual orientation is in flux? That happens to nearly everybody and has something to do with hormones. Some people more than others. It'll be over when your grow older.
It doesn't make sense to me that I can be of a masculine archetype and still be attracted to men. And it makes even less sense that I could be of a masculine archetype and actually be seeking another masculine type person. That is the confusing part (about people in general, not myself). The first instance tells us that at least the part of the brain that deals with physical attraction must be different from whatever determines your gender personality, but I am completely lost as to the second instance. I am saying it doesn't make sense because it really doesn't. Usually, two partners compliment each other in their features. How can this happen when they are of the same gender psychologically? That's what I am trying to figure out. You've got to admit it is a bit of a mystery.

With all that said, I was reffering to it not making sense that homosexual relationships would have just as high a success rate as heterosexual ones. And if it does, I really want to understand how and why.