@ mowglycdb : I guess all I can really ask is how do you see the proportions of archetypally masculine or feminine gay people? If you've known enough. Which way would you testify?

It doesn't matter if you have known enough, it doesn't matter if they're masculine of feminine, there are a hell lot of straight feminine guys.

Well it's a good thing that's not what I am saying then.

I am saying that since the MAJORITY of gay people appear to be effeminite, it ought to be harder to secure a masculine/feminine relationship. This might not even be right. I've already suggested that gay people may have 'half and half' qualities.
ofcourse they can have half and half qualities, or they can be mostly feminine or mostly masculine because they're as normal as straight people.

let it go already you're loosing your time, but you can learn what loosing your time means.