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It always seems like in my sleep any and all goals i want to get done in a lucid dream get clouded by sex. Im 15 year old male but i think as my self as a genius and that i am a person of exploration and science, but when im in my dream, i become a full on sex machine. If i am even a HINT of lucid, i get sexy girls showing up and finding my self in intimate situations. Does anyone else relate? Does anyone know how to overcome these dream desires? xD |
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You are most likely predicting the future |
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Sorry, there's no way around it. You're a sexy beast. |
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Hahaha. This was my problem the first few times as well. In fact, I'm pretty sure it happens to everyone. We have complete power, and its our nature to desire sex sex sex, so viola! You just need to get used to the idea of being lucid and gaining self control. Eventually you will get annoyed at lucid sex for waking you up/ destabilizing the dream, and youll learn to ignore it. Time, my friend. |
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You are 15 and you are horny. It's all ok for your age. |
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Yes, Dojodoj, you might just have to wait patiently for your body and its hormones to catch up with your mind, and at the very least not be surprised when sex urges attempt to take over during a LD... in other words, you'll grow out of it eventually! |
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Have fun But if this becomes bothersome you will have to work on your intent. You don't have to have sex just because you are having a lucid dream. But I suppose this goes without saying. If the urge is too strong you can try and satisfy your needs before falling asleep. |
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This is why. |
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Last edited by Laurelindo; 04-25-2014 at 09:52 PM.
Stephen LaBerge's Full Seminar in Russia, 1998
Стивен Лаберж - Осознанные сновидения. Весь семинар 1998.
I'm 32 and this still happens a lot for me. For me it feels like sex is kind of a default for my lucid dreams. If I don't remember my goals, or don't really have any at the time, the dream becomes sexual really quick. |
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Agree with a lot of the above. |
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Last edited by obmij; 04-26-2014 at 01:37 PM.
Teach me how to have sex in LDs. |
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It isn't really possible to teach you how to have sex in LDs Freak. |
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"Waiting" for the urges to subside over time is probably not a good strategy. I'm over 3x older than OP and just about every single LD I've ever had (30+) has ended prematurely (I believe) because of succumbing to temptation to messing around with females. Actually my thing is kissing: I always want to kiss to start things out and I think lucid kissing must be an advanced technique or something because of filling your visual field and the reflex to close eyes. I even remembered to keep eyes open once and it only helped for a few more seconds. |
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FryingMan's Unified Theory of Lucid Dreaming: Pay Attention, Reflect, Recall -- Both Day and Night[link]
FryingMan's Dream Recall Tips -- Awesome Links
“No amount of security is worth the suffering of a mediocre life chained to a routine that has killed your dreams.”
"...develop stability in awareness and your dreams will change in extraordinary ways" -- TYoDaS
I'm sorry...maybe I missed it...but is there some problem mentioned that I missed? |
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There are no "problems" - only wise, interesting and fun solutions. |
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