Thread: Kind of having an issue with feelings towards dream characters

Originally Posted by Sektor

I just fear that I need to give up my dream goal because I am getting too old. For example, if you're 30 years old and you want to dream about dating a 17-year-old, then you have issues

I get that you feel like it's forbidden love and you feel guilty but, you do know that dream characters are a part of you, right? So, are you saying that you don't like yourself? You would need to determine if attraction to fictional characters is disruptive to the rest of your life. I hope you DO NOT act this way in real life, right? How about this? Instead of worrying about whether or not you are a too old or it's creepy perhaps, you can focus your attention on learning from them. What do you like about these DCs? Why do you want them in your dream world? What do they represent in you? What do you think are their best qualities? You are the only person that can solve these issues about how you feel, not us. Btw, have you tried going lucid and talking to your DCs, yet? Just a thought.