My LOGIC is not working in My dreams.... HOW do I do reality Check ??

Yesterday night I dreamt of my late father ... it was a long dream .. but still i did not realize that I was dreaming...

Every time I do a reality check and ask the question " Am I dreaming ???" the answer is always NO... so how do I do a reality check ???

Here are some of my dreams
Mon, 18 Jul ---- My PC kept near to confession place inside CHURCH....
Sun, 17 Jul --- Environment --- I was in roaming in a Boat in Kerala
Sat, 16 Jul -- A rocket was talking , Earth was covered with snow
Sat, 9 Jul --- Crows were Talking in my dreams

These are Few of my dreams where if I had to use a little bit of login in my dreams I would have become LUCID.... But my LOGIC does not work in my dreams ... I feel I am half conscious so I am not able realize I am dreaming...

How do I proceed ??
What Kind of REALITY CHECK do I do and for HOW LONG should I do reality check ?? 2 weeks ? 1 months ? 3 months ??

I am really disappointed with my progress It seems like it will take me forever to become a Lucid dreamer ??

ANY TIPS/ADVICE/HELP on how I become Lucid in my Dreams ???

Please do reply....Eagerly waiting for your reply...