I went to bed last night hoping to incubate a nice lucid dream. |
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I woke up half an hour ago from an intense non-lucid dream. I must have been in the middle of REM because I remembered the details so clearly and it took me a long time to write them down. I don't want to go into detail here but, holy fuck, emotions and desires can be so intense in dreams. it's like nothing I've felt before in real life with a couple exceptions. i'd almost compare it to being a kid and everything being so awesome, games being funner, etc. then when you grow up it's like all the emotions have been dulled. Anyway, I feel very upset about this dream. Upset because, although I don't have the intense feeling anymore, I still remember what it felt like, and feel empty now in comparison. I'll probably never feel anything like that in real life. And, because I did something in the dream due to this feeling which I knew was wrong, yet I was thinking clearly, and was choosing to do it anyway. The feeling was so strong it controlled me. To my mind, it pretty much really happened, even though it was a dream, and I feel so bad about it. It brings back memories of when I used to do that kind of 'wrong' thing. And now, after this dream, I realize I wouldn't do the right thing now if I had to choose. It isn't that I've become a better person, it's just that my motivation to do bad stuff has gone away. If the temptation were there again I'd do it. But I really wish I didn't know that because it makes me feel terrible about myself, among other reasons. |
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I went to bed last night hoping to incubate a nice lucid dream. |
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Not sure if this helps, but the prefrontal cortex is not active during non lucid dreams. It's what controls our judgment...so try not to get so down on yourself about whatever you did. |
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You just changed your name! |
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Late response, but I first read this post when I woke up in bed and was still half-asleep when I read it. I honestly thought you went insane for a minute, it took me a second to catch on lol. |
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Last edited by Alyzarin; 04-25-2013 at 11:13 PM.
It should be said that you are still somewhat conscious and rational, otherwise it wouldn't be a lucid dream. |
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lol, I had the exactly same reaction for a few seconds when I read that. (1) he was so non-nonchalantly pointing out he didn't remember writing numerous entire posts, and (2) he was quoting other people and thought that they were himself. But I got it in a minute too. |
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Last edited by Dianeva; 04-26-2013 at 03:19 AM.
RAVE RAVE RAVE RAVE RAVE!! |
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That's fucking awesome! Sounds like it would be very.... freeing, being able to discuss all that sort of stuff. I long for that kind of company. |
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Did they do actual BDSM stuff at the place you went? Like shows or w/e? |
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I've been crafting this rage filled post for most of the morning, so intensely that I needed to post from my phone on a break! I was tempted to write it all in caps, but it would have taken too long! I'll just settle for exclaimation points! (Tone set for the post is sarcastically joyful!) |
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Have a functioning sonic, a top hat in the post, 93m of Sapphire ribbon, a T.A.R.D.I.S charm and 6 A*'s on practice papers along with still having a relationship (a slightly complicated one but....) |
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Maan, a thing happened and it's really been tearing me up. I knew that would happen. I've known since it happened, even though it immediately made me feel paranoid and shocked, I knew it would develop and get nastier over time. On one side I want to write what happened because I need to vent it... more. But on the other hand, just no. I might make a 3x rant combo and include those I wanted to rant about last time. Or maybe not. There's something frightening about it. Sigh. |
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I'm getting really really insecure about the way I look and my body shape and I really really want to be thinner and prettier and I know that the only reason I want that is because of the media and those I see around me and it's not fair because some people work so hard and still don't get the recognition they deserve because their appearance isn't aesthetically pleasing and this makes me very very sad. |
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Oh yeah, it was an amazing feeling! Haha, maybe you should. You never know, it couldn't hurt! Well it could... but mostly likely you'll be fine, and I guess that could be your thing too. |
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Last edited by Alyzarin; 04-26-2013 at 11:16 PM.
Well congratulations for doing it Aly. It sounds like it could be scary but that it was a memorable experience. Do you plan to go to any of their other events, or was this a one-time thing? |
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I really wanted to buy this pocket watch ( http://cdn-s3-2.wanelo.com/product/i...6/original.jpg ) |
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Thank you! I'm definitely going to be visiting them again, I won't even have any anxiety about it next time. I don't think I've ever felt so welcome anywhere in my life. It was a completely free environment, no judgement of any kind.... Believe me, I checked lol. I can't wait to go to more events, I think I'm going to try to hit every single one of those restaurant meetups I can at least for a while. All the people in the group were just so happy. I wasn't the only newcomer totally buzzing on the amazing atmosphere. |
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i completely fucked up my ankle. i don't know how i did it, i just noticed about a week ago that my right ankle was irritating me after my workouts. i didn't think much of it because a lot of the times the irritation goes away after a few days. but when i woke up in the morning my ankle would hurt every time i put weight on it, my ankle is also swollen. i really hate being injured because it takes a long time for the injury to heal and when it finally does heal, any little thing could re-injure it again. |
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There's no way to properly convey what I want to rant about. I've been trying for hours and it doesn't work. The emotions I want to express are too abstract for words. |
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I was just rudely awakened by the stench from a skunk behind the house. I fired a few rounds from the shotgun to scare it off, but the stink lingers. |
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Rant: Someone has been stealing packages from my sister. She is pregnant and does not have a lot of money, so any bit that goes missing is demoralizing and a bit of a blow. I'd like to beat up the person who is doing it. |
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