Hi Jade, I know you've received a lot of advice (some I agree with more than others), but I wanted to add my own perspective.
#1. Chogyam Trungpa in Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism (truly a beautiful and profound book--I highly recommend it) says this about sitting meditation:
. . . the first point is not to focus yourself too much on the awakened state of mind. The whole practice of meditation is essentially based upon the situation of this present moment, here and now, and means working with this situation, this present state of mind . . . .
It does not seem you are after the awakened state of mind, but your meditation does seem to be very goal-oriented, in that you want to calm thoughts so you can be a better lucid dreamer. I think this might be some of your problem. If you are annoyed that thoughts keep arising, it means that you are not really resting in the present moment--you are concerned with seeking a future moment where thoughts may or may not be calmed. And that, unfortunately, will not lead to a calmed mind. Here is another quote a bit farther down the page:
You do not have to push yourself into the practice of meditation but just let be. If you practice in this way, a feeling of space and ventilation automatically comes, the expression of the buddha nature of basic intelligence that is working its way through confusion.
These are unfortunately not the exact quotes (can't find the one I want at the moment), but the essence is that Trungpa Rinpoche is recommending you simply be with your thoughts. Remain aware of the breath, continue bringing attention to the breath, but do this in a peaceful, non-aggressive manner toward your thoughts. Simply by changing your relationship to thoughts, and "giving up" on calming your mind and instead just paying attention to your breath, the mind will calm itself. That is its natural state anyway--it (paradoxically and oddly enough) is you (and me, and anyone else who "tries") who is stirring up your own mind. Just sit with it, note the thoughts, and be aware of the breath.
#2. I agree with Vince here but want to go a bit further. You really shouldn't be exerting much energy to meditate. Thought (and pursuing thought by thinking about thought) is what takes energy. When you allow the mind to settle, you are suddenly not expending energy. Alan Wallace (who FryingMan mentioned and who I also highly recommend) would say you are trying too hard. Listen to his podcasts on lucid dreaming and dream yoga (in particular, where he discusses "the infimary"--perfect practice for you). Just Google Wallace and dream yoga podcasts. 13 episodes, can be found at Upaya Zen Center podcast or dharmapodcast.org.
#3. This is part of the process; there will always be resistance to mind-calming meditation starting out. Keep practicing, and you will see the benefits. They are a lot more interesting (in my opinion) than simply having more lucid dreams.
Wanted to mention one other thing:
You can never successfully clear your mind, if we could do that we would be dead. There would be nothing to process our own thoughts.
The mind's nature is not thought, and you can be alive without thought. The mind's nature is open awareness:
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