Hey dude, I understand you want these things to happen quick haha, as do we all at first but lucid dreaming takes TIME man, lots and lots of time and practice. Its all about routine. Reality checks, and Dream Journals. Make sure you're doing RC's, even during WILD's. It's very very easy to forget you are lucid dreaming, and drift off into deep "not knowing you're dreaming" dreaming. If I remember correctly it took me about 3 months of dream recording to get my first lucid DEILD. It takes dedication, and my advice to you.. is stick with it. It takes time, but it's worth it in the end