Thread: i had a lucid dream where i raped a girl. is this bad?

I kind of disagree what most people are saying, I don't really care when it comes to dreams, they're NOT real.
Would I do it in a dream? No, because it's not my idea of fun, but if that's what you want to do, go ahead. As long as you can distinguish between right and wrong in real life and in dreams, it's fine. It's like so many people do stuff like rob banks, and get in fights in dreams. That's still illegal in real life, but no one cares. Why? Because it's not looked down on anywhere as close as rape. So do people care? No.
Feeling bad is also natural.

just so everyone knows, the dream wasnt me "going around wanting to rape a girl". thats just what ended up happening because she was the only girl around. normally the girls dont care if i have sex with them. this girl was different. but i still thought "its just a dream,so what if i do it"

Woah dude, this is wrong, unless she was hot. Then it's fine


(im kidding, not wrong at all unless you wake up and say "THAT WAS AWESOME TIME TO DO IT IRL"

Dreams like this make up 99% of my dreams. They are the 99%. Occupy Skateaton's head."

Lol :p

We humans are evil.Yes we are evil,there are certain rules and regulations that are stopping us from doing bad things.

Well... me personally, I think that's a little wrong. I don't think you have TOO much to worry about, as it IS just a dream... BUT, perhaps you shouldn't do it again. I always treat my DC's with the utmost respect, as to me, they are either real (in some respect), or they are a part of you. So as someone said already, you just raped some aspect of your psyche. Even if the DC's are COMPLETELY disconnected from reality and yourself, I'd STILL avoid doing such things, as it may somehow pass on into WL, even if it's just slightly.

I think the only difference between this one and the other times u had LD sex is that this one mimiced the face of a RL person. That made you feel bad. But no harm was done to her. As long as you don't start doing that stuff in waking life it's fine.

If you feared she wouldn't have sex with you, that might have caused her not to want to. You knew it was a dream, so you had sex with her anyway.

Originally Posted by michael98

i had a lucid dream last night where i wanted to have sex but there wasnt any girls around. so i went next door and saw my next door neighbor in her pool. she knew what i was about to do and was begging me and screaming to me to not do it.but since i knew i was dreaming i thought it didnt really matter. i would NEVER even think of doing this in real life. i know that raping and sexually abusing people is wrong and i would never do it. but now that im awake i feel bad for doing this in the dream. this girl is a real person that i dont really know that well but shes not just some made up dream character. does this dream make me a bad person?

I'm sorry, but I really couldn't help myself

you gave into a lower more primal feeling of sexuality. do not feel bad, instead perhaps see it as an obstacle to overcome.

i used to have sex in my lucid dreams, but it started to bother me that i could do whatever i wanted and would resort to doing something so basic. now (usually) i try to do something a little more interesting, like flying or passing through walls..

i wouldn't feel bad.. we all have a shadow self and secret desires and urges.. in a lucid dream, since we are aware of its unreality, it is easier to play out those types of fantasies or desires.

No. You didn't actually hurt a person or do something against their will. It was a dream character so who cares? You can do whatever you want in dreams don't let morals limit your fun.

Your guilty conscience IRL is telling you it's wrong -- why do you need any one else's opinion???

Originally Posted by bappjf

Your guilty conscience IRL is telling you it's wrong -- why do you need any one else's opinion???

Just because he feels guilty, doesn't mean it's wrong. He's asking for people's opinions to see what they think..
Say you were in a room, and you had to press a button, if you didn't press it, three people in a cage would fall into lava, and die. If you do press it, then one person falls into the lava and dies. Would you feel guilty? OF COURSE! Was it the wrong thing to do? No, you saved the majority.

Originally Posted by yuppie11975

Just because he feels guilty, doesn't mean it's wrong. He's asking for people's opinions to see what they think..
Say you were in a room, and you had to press a button, if you didn't press it, three people in a cage would fall into lava, and die. If you do press it, then one person falls into the lava and dies. Would you feel guilty? OF COURSE! Was it the wrong thing to do? No, you saved the majority.

thats right......i guess

Welcome to the "real" world, where you are finding you still have to make moral choices regardless of whether you are dreaming or not. I don't think its much different than viewing porn...except that you can't get caught. If one doesn't bother you the other one probably wont, and vice versa. Only the Creator (if you believe in Him) can see what you do in your mind. If you don't follow Jesus, then you can totally ignore this (not trying to convert anyone here to my personal belief system)... but He said: "If you look upon a woman lustfully, you have already committed adultry in your heart". That's the guidance I (try to) follow.

I also like movies, and to quote King Baldwin, the Leper King in the movie "Kingdom of
Heaven":

"When I was sixteen, I won a great victory. I felt in that moment I would live to be a hundred. Now I know I shall not see thirty. None of us know our end, really, or what hand will guide us there. A king may move a man, a father may claim a son, but that man can also move himself, and only then does that man truly begin his own game. Remember that howsoever you are played or by whom, your soul is in your keeping alone, even though those who presume to play you be kings or men of power. When you stand before God, you cannot say, "But I was told by others to do thus," or that virtue was not convenient at the time. This will not suffice. Remember that."

I agree with most everyone else, except, well, it's a LUCID dream. You have complete control over your DCs, since they're just a figment of your imagination, so the girl in the pool could have easily wanted to have sex with you and not scream if you wanted her to. Just to keep in mind for next time.

Sigh.. why is it that religious people link EVERYTHING to their beliefs.. like yes, everyone's entitled to their own opinion. But seriously... come on.
Anyway, I'm going to go masturbate to some interacial porn..

You should talk to the girl next door.

I had a dream that was kind of relevant to this conversation. Early in the dream my cat was transformed into a human girl. We were walking around doing some weird thing, possibly some sort of competition or whatever. Anyways, the relevant part was we walked into a room that was kind of like a church whatever room with rows of pews. A big lumbering man comes down the main walkway and tries to rape this girl that I knew to be my cat. Anyways, she starts fighting him and I'm just standing there watching this all go down not feeling any particular emotion. I think I woke up mid fight. Later I thought this might be some part of me fighting my sex drive (the big man thing) or whatever. I'm not really that big into dream interpretation.

i mean in a dream, talk to her.

Originally Posted by OpheliaBlue

haha mannequin?

Mine sometimes turn into not-really-that-mean demons, or they shrink into midgets

I HATE that

not-really-that-mean demons would be quite fun