Thread: 365 days w/o Jerking Off: A self control challenge

Originally Posted by Spyguy

@everyone in this thread: for some reason I didn't get any wet dreams during this challenge. Never had any, except for a few lucid ones. Is that weird? :S

I think it's more common to have them if you used to masturbate very frequently - excessively. But who knows, maybe you'll start getting them at a later point. Either way, it's not weird.

Originally Posted by Spyguy

Status report: day 26 was succesful, but this was a tough one. Got close, but I stopped myself way in time So I'm still in

Like mustnotfap.jpg? Good thing you stopped yourself

Day 27: SUCCES!
I am now approximately at my old record! If I go on for a few days then I'll be sure to have broken it! But that's not all ofcourse. Breaking it isn't enough. I have to double it! Almost at the 50%-mark.

And yeah, good thing I stopped myself. I would've been terribly ashamed if I had failed

day 1/2 SUCCESS

ZOMG

Originally Posted by RemoteVicinity

I think it's more common to have them if you used to masturbate very frequently - excessively. But who knows, maybe you'll start getting them at a later point. Either way, it's not weird.

I masturbated waaay too much prior to this challenge - no wet dreams during the 61 days. So yeah, I'd say it's common that they just don't happen much.

I hate to say this Day 27 wasn't completely over whwn I typed, so here's the edit:
Day 27: FAIL :'(

What led to my defeat? Sudden loss of motivation. For some weird reason I lost all motivation, and regained it afterwards. Which is why I've decided to just keep counting and stick to the original plan (end of april). Sorry again everyone
So, a tip from me: If you want to succeed, make sure to not lose your motivation!

Failed, couldn't sleep.

That happened to me today, but the reason I couldn't sleep was because I was going there.

I should have slept. Between the two+ hours of enjoyment and my recent lack of sleep, I'm a little tired.

Originally Posted by mooseantlers

Day 1 success!

(under 24 hours later)

Originally Posted by mooseantlers

Failed, couldn't sleep.

I laughed.

I was too tired and fell asleep on the sofa. Day 18 success.

Next few days will be really busy for me so it might be instant knockout on the bed too.

@Spyguy:

I'm thinking of adding 27 days to the challenge to make up for this failure. What do you guys think?

Week 1


Win

Originally Posted by Spyguy

I'm thinking of adding 27 days to the challenge to make up for this failure. What do you guys think?

I suggest you just keep it to 2 months at the moment. So you're restarting this challenge again?

Edits: I was shocked to see so many failed.

Is it time for another motivational speech?

Day 19 success.

Originally Posted by Spyguy

I hate to say this Day 27 wasn't completely over whwn I typed, so here's the edit:
Day 27: FAIL :'(

What led to my defeat? Sudden loss of motivation. For some weird reason I lost all motivation, and regained it afterwards. Which is why I've decided to just keep counting and stick to the original plan (end of april). Sorry again everyone
So, a tip from me: If you want to succeed, make sure to not lose your motivation!

Don't let that stop you, and I don't think you should restart your counter. The vast majority of the people attempting this challenge relapse at least once. Let this incident motivate you to beat your personal record of days of abstaining. A tip is to add some more days of the challenge just to prove for yourself that you really can beat your personal record, but do what feels right


Edit: post 666 D:

Ok, thx for the feedback. Adding 27 days feels like a bit much. I think I'm going to do my original goal ( so until the end of April) + 1 week. But I might not do that week, we'll see.
Anyway, let's look at it from the bright side. I succeeded 26/27 days so far. And the kegel exercises work! (It was one hell of a blow lol)

And I've learned to wait with calling it a succes until it's actually over. What a shame to have to revise my statement xD

Day 20 success.

Day 28 was also succesful

As a male, I understand how difficult this is.

Hey guys I'm gonna go jerk off to some nice porn and then sleep like a baby.

Originally Posted by tommo

Hey guys I'm gonna go jerk off to some nice porn and then sleep like a baby.

Have fun

In the meantime, I will add that day 29 has been succesful and day 30 has been succesful so far as well

Originally Posted by tommo

Hey guys I'm gonna go jerk off to some nice porn and then sleep like a baby.

I'm usually more awake after fapping.

Day 21 success.

Originally Posted by Spyguy

Have fun

In the meantime, I will add that day 29 has been succesful and day 30 has been succesful so far as well

C'mon son, make it a month.

Originally Posted by tommo

Hey guys I'm gonna go jerk off to some nice porn and then sleep like a baby.

Sounds great. I don't watch a lot of porn anymore. Now I'm more into reading stories and fantasizing.