There is no definitive time period. From what we know, your affinity towards lucidity is based on how well you utilize the tiny bit of activity in the frontal lobe. |
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Recently (a couple of months back), I started practicing towards a much more consistent lucidity rate in my dreams, by using an all day awareness form of practice through a thorough assessment of reality in order to tune in into a much more lucid mindset. I've noticed that a month after starting practicing, this mindset has made its way naturally to my normal day to day behavior. I've seen that it's easier for me to remain in this state throughout the day. Nonetheless, my dreams continue as usual as they have been, without much change in my ability to tune in into this mindset and become lucid. There's a slight difference I can see when dreaming, like some kind of small awareness about the whole situation, yet not big enough to trigger lucidity. Likewise, such difference is so subtle, I might as well just be misleading myself into thinking I'm making progress where there is none. |
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There is no definitive time period. From what we know, your affinity towards lucidity is based on how well you utilize the tiny bit of activity in the frontal lobe. |
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Took me around 3 weeks for my practice to kick in, but it's different for everybody. It's just important that you keep up and you WILL have one soon. And once you do have one, they'll start to come in a lot faster. |
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Spoiler for Secret to LDing:
I had some small jumps in dream awareness after the first month, but it really started to kick off until the third month of practicing the thing all day. |
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I know i am not answering your question but have you considered practicing first easier and less depleting techniques? |
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Last edited by VagalTone; 08-31-2014 at 05:49 PM.
Check your memory, did any suprising event happpen ? does the present make sense ? visualize what you will do when lucid, and how. Reality check as reminder of your intention to lucid dream tonight. Sleep as good as you can; when going to sleep, relax and invite whatever comes with curiosity. Grab your dream journal immediately as you awake and write everything you can recall (if only when you wake up for good). Keep calm, positive and persistent, and don't forget to have fun along the way
It took me around 2 months, and even after that I am still getting more lucids every week. Usually I become lucid once or twice every night, but I also "Almost" become lucid many other times throughout the night. It all depends on how much practice you put in and if what you are doing really fits to the way you think. For instance, some people are natural WILDers and some are natural DILDers, either one would find it way harder to do the opposite. In the end, one month of training is still the beginning really, but as others have said- it all depends on the individual. Just keep at it man. |
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"If we doubted our fears instead of doubting our dreams, imagine how much in life we'd accomplish." ~Joel Brown
"Your background and circumstances may have influenced who you are, but you are responsible for who you become." ~Darren Hardy
Goals:
-Become Lucid in every dream every night
-Perfect the time dilation watch
-Continue to have a dream plan for most of my lucid dreams
If we're talking about archieving an isolated LD then it might take anywhere from a week to several months of practice. I assume you mean having a constant rate of lucidity we might be talking about several years, the thing that makes it difficult is not learning the techniques, it's finding the right technique for you which can be hard considering the large amount of techniques there are. |
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If you read this do a reality check, you will thank me later...
Thanks guys for your responses, much appreciated. |
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Last edited by Wolfdog; 09-01-2014 at 06:35 AM.
I've had a fairly even split of DILDs and WILDs, but I've noticed a big difference in how they manifest. The DILDs seem fairly random: a few weeks of MILD (using the exercises from LaBerge's ETWOLD) got me started a few years ago, but since then I haven't been able to trace any correlation with how much I practice MILD or ADA or other daytime techniques and how often I experience DILDs. In fact, the only correlation I've been able to observe at all is that random DILDs seem (perversely) much more likely when I'm busiest in waking life. Just when my schedule clears up a bit and I'm like, "Yay, more time to dream!" they become irritatingly elusive. |
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Yeah that's pretty much how it went for me when I started practicing for DILDs. At that point I hadn't even started using awareness as my main form of practice. The WILD method is something I'm really looking forward to acquiring proficiency at some point in my practice. It would be an incredible resource to have in the bag to use for acquiring lucidity. The problem I have with it right now, is the tightness of my schedule as of this moment, due to the upcoming tests and long hours of study that I devote to most of the days. Likewise, I tend to have some difficulty with getting to sleep in the nights, which adds to the impatience that I regularly feel when attempting WILDs. All this and the difficulty that I have with successfully inducing WILDs are the reason I chose and prefer right now the relatively easiness of the DILD practice. |
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That´ts exactly why you should try WILD!!! It's as simple as snoozing your alarm (or let it stop by itself) and remain slighlty aware ( counting, body awareness..) for 2 minutes maximum, if no lucid just don´t keep your self awake and snooze later. Ideally you should start snoozing after 5h30 of sleep, like every 15 or 10 min. |
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Last edited by VagalTone; 09-01-2014 at 04:24 PM.
Check your memory, did any suprising event happpen ? does the present make sense ? visualize what you will do when lucid, and how. Reality check as reminder of your intention to lucid dream tonight. Sleep as good as you can; when going to sleep, relax and invite whatever comes with curiosity. Grab your dream journal immediately as you awake and write everything you can recall (if only when you wake up for good). Keep calm, positive and persistent, and don't forget to have fun along the way
Sure enough, after writing this sentence only yesterday, and then going to sleep on one of the rare nights when I had no time and no intention to LD, I ended up lucid dreaming all night, lol. |
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Hmmm. Very interesting lesson to get from this. This is what I would consider. There is two approaches you can take with Lucid Dreaming, and I do not take this pathway that you are taking. The first way you can look at dreaming is a thing to be manipulated, and most people do this by trying to emulate a waking state that you carry into their dreams through either RCs or something like what you have been practicing to get them aware. As you can see this isn't a guarantee that anything will happen and some things just never carry through. For example some things in my life would be a theme in my dream, regardless of my focus on it! Like perhaps an old house I use to live in, and then the new house just won't sink in, ever. Dreams are unpredictable like that. It is my belief that, this is how I approach it now. I don't consider my consious mind to be superior, and I don't see non lucid dreams as less important. That may seem strange, and it's not that i don't prefer lucid dreams. But the approach I take to get Lucid dreams is to look at it in a holistic way. For example if you start paying attention to exactly what is in your dreams, and how you are guiding your life in general. Things come up in the dream, patterns, messages, and it can get pretty fascinating to connect the dots. Lucids seem to come to people despite what effort they may make, or sometimes if you try really hard, you won't get a lucid, and then sometimes you will. And it's almost as if your not even in control of it. I think there is some truth to that in that this goes beyond just us as individuals. That might seem silly but what kind of person you are, and how you live, that definitely is going to weigh heavy on what type of dreams are going to come to you, good and bad. Mostly it's messy and all sorts of weird stuff happens. But I think it inhibits you if you don't look very closely at your dream life, even non lucid. If you focus on waking awareness constantly, that might not be what you need to have Lucid dreams, it could be something different. A dream journal is critical I think, and your attention to your dreams for a specific purpose. If you want lucid dreams just to have fun, I don't personally believe that is what they are for alone, even though they are extremely exciting I think such a thing is much more than just something that is fun to do. This is just my guess, but if I was you, I would try a different approach. You may have more success if you focus on your dream journal, and certain themes in your life. Such as what you did that day to contribute to something in your goals, something you struggle with or some job that you complete that needs to be done. And involve yourself deeply with that with meaning and purpose and not just a focus of 'im awake, im awake' sort of thinking. Then you may find these themes in your waking life they develop into the dream and are interlinked thoughts that produce certain effects in your dreams. So you are working with your subconsious minds and not just your consious. That way you are not just trying to induce a Lucid dream but you are taking the core of things in your life to make some sort of meaningful positive change, and then those dream will naturally respond to that, from there, your desire to be Lucid I think is going to express itself after effort and you will suddenly get Lucid dreams. If you want to make this effort I am very interested in what this type of approach will do for you, and if you get a different result. |
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I don't know, it does seem like a very simple process from the way you describe it. The problem is that every time I wake up it's considerably hard for me to go back to sleep. I have a very tough time getting myself into a relaxed state to sleep or induce a successful WILD. I remember the first times I practiced WILDs I failed big time, staying for hours just lying there in bed; it was very stressful. I'm obviously doing something very wrong in the practice, which is why I've looked at into ways to relax myself when going to bed in order to facilitate the whole thing. |
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Last edited by Wolfdog; 09-06-2014 at 09:12 PM.
The method that has worked for me most consistently is very simple in itself: breathing and counting. What makes it hard is to find the "sweet spot" between falling asleep too quickly or not falling asleep at all. I usually have the opposite problem from you in that I fall asleep way too easily, so I need long WBTBs to even have a shot. Since you have trouble falling asleep, I'd recommend keeping your WBTBs as short as possible, and maybe even try a soothing supplement like L-Theanine -- early on in my practice I had a much harder time getting back to sleep, and was even experimenting with galantamine for a while (a definite stimulant) and it seemed like L-Theanine really helped my ability to relax without diminishing REM. |
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Thanks for the suggestion Verre, will keep this in mind next time I go to bed. Hopefully I can lower the time it takes for me to relax and fall asleep. |
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It took me a full month, maybe a month and a half, to have my first Lucid Dream that I induced. |
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DILD: 0 | WBTB: 0 | WILD: 0
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