 Originally Posted by Sivason
I think we would all agree that the intention stuff is a good starting point. Good luck!
Thank you!
 Originally Posted by MoonageDaydream
This is a shame, because WBTB is one of the powerful techniques you can try. I know that it takes a while to go back to bed, and that can be inconvenient. Unfortunately, that effort is the cost of lucid dreaming. It's rare for me to have a lucid dream without doing WBTB. Also, it's just brain chemistry. You need your brain to be in the right state to have a chance at getting lucid. It's like surfing a wave. No matter how developed your critical reflective attitude is, if your brain is too tired, you won't have a high chance of lucidity.
Also, I'm a strong believer of using a classic physical dream journal. The act of physically writing increases your intention to remember dreams and become lucid. Then when you wake up, you can always write it digitally too, if you like. The main idea is that the more effort you are putting in = the more intention you are setting. Intention is everything. Taking short cuts, like digital apps and looking for instant techniques, don't add the same amount of energy into it.
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 Originally Posted by MoonageDaydream
Very good point. I think the key is how the energy feels. If you are trying too hard, and the practice feels "heavy" (for lack of a better description), then I would back off and see if that helps. If you are putting a lot of effort in, and feel the joy ... the "flow" of it, then go with it. That's the mindset you really want to aim for. You want to be excited about doing a WBTB, because you could get lucid!! If you don't feel that way, I would work on motivation. Thinking of ideas that you really want to do. To the point that you're brimming with excitement before bed at just the thought of a possible lucid dream. This feeling can be cultivated with work.  Also.. getting social with it helps. I recommend the tasks of the month and year as a great starting ground for building that motivation.
What you don't want to do is practice short-cut techniques and expect them to work as well as daily effort. That's going to get you disappointed, which can spiral further if you let it.
Thanks for the advice, I think I will do WBTB using the "drink lots of water before going to bed" method. I will use WBTB plus Tipharot's Intention technique as it seems like a good combination. I also decided to write down on paper my dreams and then transfer to app as it makes it easier to catalogue my potential dream signs.
 Originally Posted by DarkestDarkness
Some good advice from the others here I think, especially agree from my own experience that WBTB is particularly effective, but sadly it's also not at all a convenient technique for me because of sharing a bed. It's an issue that can be worked around but the truth is, like MoonageDaydream says, I haven't put in the effort to deal with it.
Another thing I'd like to add on the note of effort though, is to know when you are putting in too much effort too; it's not a case of "do or die" and really pushing yourself too much, in my opinion, is more likely to be counter-productive. Maybe it depends on the person. Like everything, I think a moderated or balanced approach is a good idea, but an occasional push "for victory" doesn't really hurt in fairness.
On a different note, I rarely have lucid dreams, maybe once a year at average... Part of it is effort-related to be sure, though I do know in my case specifically it does partly relate to the "natural" quality of my sleep. It's simply poor due to my health condition, something for which I actually have medical evidence for, but I know most people don't have an opportunity or reason to have this checked. Even so, I think it's always worth analysing if there is something you can do to improve the quality of your sleep or sleeping experience in some way, regardless of wanting to have lucid dreams, because I feel it can impact dream recall significantly, which in itself is something I personally value highly.
 Originally Posted by Sivason
This is where learning to sleep comes into the hobby. Relaxation techniques and meditation are a big part of the hobby for me. I can now actually go out to my car during an hour lunch break and get 45 minutes of good dream work/sleep done sitting somewhat upright in the front seat. I can return to sleep from WBTB in about 3 minutes. This is no accident! It is a direct result of training. I am not suggesting this needs to be your top focus, but keep it in mind.
Thank you for the advice. I'll try to do some more research on how to improve my sleep quality.
Thank you all for your advice and information! I appreciate it!
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