OK Let's start from the bottom up. I'm so tired. But I will not let any points rest without a response.
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
As I said, which, as usual, you appear to have missed or overlooked, it's the price to pay as the cons of a democracy. I just wonder how comfortable you are with the fact that the overwhelming majority of Justices who voted to overturn RvW and the senators who confirmed it were male. If you call yourself a feminist ... Stop.
Did you know that the group of Supreme Court Justices that voted IN FAVOR of Roe v. Wade was ENTIRELY MALE! Not a single female.
At least the group that overturned Roe did have 1 female voting to overturn. <3 <3 Justice Amy Coney Barrett <3 <3 That's one more than your group!
I never said I was a feminist. Because I'm not. I DO believe in supporting women. But that has nothing to do with modern feminism.
Next.
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
Even if some people use it irresponsibly. It is none of your business. Some Muslim communities abort as soon as they find out it's a girl which I think is wrong. But it is their choice and many, especially in Europe, would lynch you for opposing their views. What are you going to do? There are billions of Muslims on the planet and they stick together. Banning abortion makes things worse because it won't stop abortions—it makes them riskier and more dangerous for those who actually need it. Yes ... Need it!
So I think we have a major major difference in morality. Because I would NEVER BE OKAY with sex-selection based abortion. Not for anyone, me or others. That is discrimination against females, and an absolute atrocity. It should be illegal.
I'm going to speak out, that's what I'm going to do.
A quick story. When I was pregnant with my son and getting the gender-revealing ultrasound, there was another woman there getting her ultrasound. She was having twins. Well, when she found out they were both girls, she aborted both of them. 2nd trimester abortion. That's where they dismember them live in the womb with a sopher clamp, with no pain meds, just local anesthetic for the mother. And of course, science shows us that babies at that age are capable of feeling pain.
Your argument is that we should turn a blind eye to other people committing atrocities. Because it's none of our business. With that argument, you're OK with other people owning slaves? Are you okay with other people committing murder?
An individual's right to freedom ENDS when it harms another person. That's why you can't smoke in public buildings.
Moving on.
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
You are merely opposing an extreme with another. And you did provide a strawman for the pro-choice argument because every statement you made is a misrepresentation or an incomplete account of the pro-choice stance as best as it has been expressed. It's not an attack on you as a person, it is merely stating a fact. I stated that you strawmanned the position because I felt you did not represent it well, not just because I disagree with you.
No, that is not fact. That is opinion.
If you want to say that a particular thing I said was strawmanning, be my guest, point it out. But to generalize and blanket-statement say that I've "completely strawmanned" everything is just a way of disrespecting someone with different views.
One thing you have to consider is that the pro-abortion and pro-life movements have entirely different frameworks. We are coming at this issue from entirely different angles. It is not strawmanning to explain my angle on issues. You may not understand that angle, but just because you don't understand it, does not make it invalid.
And also? If your goal was to help me to understand your views better, invalidating my points with a blanket-statement is not going to help. Just some truth for you.
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 Originally Posted by Summerlander
I could equally play the same game and accuse you of immaturity and insulting those who are pro-choice or have had abortions themselves when you said, and I quote, '... abortion is the greatest human rights violation of our time'. (Preposterous when you consider what some serial killers do: rape, torture, kill ... And not necessarily in this order!)
The reason I say that it is the greatest human rights violation of our time is because of the sheer numbers of babies being killed. Over 63 million since Roe v. Wade was passed. That's why. Do you understand now?
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
You ought to be careful as you are accusing a great many people of crime and, as a consequence, they should be stripped of their rights without even knowing their reasons or what they went through. Not very compassionate on your part, if you ask me.
You're the one strawmanning here. You've twisted my words.
I never said we should punish anyone who has had an abortion. YOU said that, NOT ME. I don't feel that way. I don't think they need more trauma on top of what they've already been through by having an abortion - because heaven knows that's not an easy thing for anyone to go through.
If anything, I want to see these women given support and therapy if they need it.
I DO think abortionists who are committing late term abortions and partial birth abortions should be in jail. Those people, the ones crushing newborns' skulls as they exit the birth canal? Those are the criminals.
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
Furthermore, I can use whatever pronouns I like and don't have to address you directly. Last I checked, it's not a crime and if you took it as an insult, it is your problem, not mine.
No you don't have to. You can continue to refer to me in the 3rd person. But, it's rude.
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
Remember, you are the one who has already been reported, right or wrongly, but most certainly due to your disrespectful tone and holier-than-thou attitude which begot an impulsive human reaction.
Which words of mine are disrespectful?
"Remember, you are the one who has already been reported"? Because I have different views. Politics always gets some people upset.
Just because my viewpoint is different from yours, does not make it a disrespectful tone or holier-than-thou attitude.
I respect people who have different views. I respect people who are pro choice. I love my pro-choice friends. However, that doesn't make me less pro-life. And being pro-life doesn't make me disrespectful.
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 Originally Posted by Summerlander
You may argue that it was unnecessary or uncalled for, and it may be warranted, but you are certainly treading on toes and if you put something out there, be prepared to face the consequences instead of throwing your toys out of the pram and crying offence because someone disagrees with you. Take responsibility for your actions by realising that respect goes both ways and is very much earned ...
Prepared to face what consequences? Please respond with respect when discussing with me.
I don't believe respect must be earned. I think respectful language and actions toward others is a basic human decency. That does not have to be earned. Admiration - now that, yes, that is earned. But not respect. All humans deserve respect.
You say it goes both ways. Do you feel I disrespected you? What words did I say to you that you consider to be disrespectful?
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 Originally Posted by Summerlander
[B]By the way, not everyone wants to, or has the option to adopt as you seem to naively imply. Your view is very narrow-minded and inconsiderate of others.
No, everyone in the United States is legally allowed to give up their baby to the State up until 3 days after birth.
"To date, all 50 States, the District of Columbia, Guam, and Puerto Rico have enacted safe haven legislation.1 The focus of these laws is on protecting newborns from endangerment by providing parents with an alternative to criminal abandonment; therefore, the laws are generally limited to very young children. For example, in approximately seven States and Puerto Rico, only infants 72 hours old or younger may
be relinquished to a designated safe haven. Approximately 23 States and Guam accept infants up to 30 days old. Other States specify varying age limits in their statutes." Source: https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubpdfs/safehaven.pdf
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
I wonder if you have kids and how you'd react with such lack of compassion if some of the problems faced by others befell your progeny.
Are you done disrespecting me yet?
I've already talked to my daughter. I told her that if she ever got pregnant, that she could come to me. That she would NOT be in trouble. That I would help her take care of the baby if that happened. I would take on the responsibility for her.
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
There are many reasons why adoption is not an option for some, from financial to felonious, the latter often venial and to do with disqualifiers perpetrated they when they were young and immature. Remember, ideally, people should be rewarded for making self-improvements instead of being penalised for the rest of their lives by barring them from other self-fulfilling options. Others, still, wish to have their own offspring and actually give birth.
I'm talking about a mother giving up a baby for adoption - which is free for the mother. Not about people trying to adopt. There are already very long waiting lists in this country for adoption. This includes adoption of babies with special needs. So much so, that many people seek adoptions outside of our country - it's often a quicker process. There's more demand than supply.
I do agree with you that the process needs to be easier. Some of the hangups are unnecessary. From same-sex parents to people adopting babies of a different race, I think we need to be more liberal in allowing these adoptions to happen.
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 Originally Posted by Summerlander
What do you mean nobody is policing them? The new policy was passed when Rv.W was overturned and already people are suffering the consequences in your beloved country—or have I suddenly slipped into a parallel universe?
I'm talking about the states where it is still legal to abort a baby for any reason. And especially so for the 7 states, plus D.C., that allows abortion in the 9th month of pregnancy for any reason.
Roe v. Wade did not abolish abortion, Summerlander. It just made it a State decision. Some states allow it, and some don't. Many states have little to no restrictions, OR, the restrictions are worded such as to include any "mental, physical, emotional, financial, or social" "health" issue related to the pregnancy... which is so broad of a guideline, with little to no actual specification, that an expectant mother can claim any reason and get an abortion. If one doctor won't do it, the next one will.
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
Apart from the judgemental anti-abortion lobby many women endure when facing the prospect of abortion, they are now turned away and forced to gestate in states governed by pro-lifers or demagogues propitiating them for votes, not to mention clinics that now fear litigation. It is already happening!
So are you OK with your taxpayer dollars funding abortions? Just curious. Because I'm not.
Planned Parenthood is partially funded by the government. In some states, taxpayer dollars cover abortions for women who may be using them as a form of contraception. I don't think that's fair.
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 Originally Posted by Summerlander
Please don't strawman me when I have already given you my nuanced opinion. If you reread my first post here you will realise I have mentioned that abortion should be avoided and, if people freely resort to it as the last option (a right I think they should have) it should be done in the shortest period of gestation possible if they can help it. Your problem, Hilary, is that you are conflating pro-choice with pro-abortion. One can be pro-choice and not necessarily be pro-abortion—although the same cannot be said the other way around. You are literally, and unfairly I might add, pigeonholing everybody with a pro-choice stance as an extremist regarding abortion. Please spare me the red herring of how obnoxious late-term abortions can be and therefore, because of it, my whole opinion on the matter is rendered untenable. That is simply weak to say the least.
Your nuanced opinion is OK, but when I give mine, it's strawmanning. Don't you think that's biased? Maybe we just happen to see things very differently. I'm not going to see it your way. I see it as being pro-abortion. Why?
Things like this:
These centers are set up to provide free and low cost OBGYN care to women in need. We're trying to be part of the solution. To give women an actual CHOICE other than abortion. Yet shutting them down would only serve to take away choice. It takes away resources being given to low income women. How is that part of the solution? How is that not pro-abortion? Because it's certainly not pro-choice.
Now, to be fair, you are not Senator Warren, or Senator Menendez. Perhaps you feel differently than them.
I understand that most pro-choice people are "somewhere in the middle". Most pro-choice people aren't in favor of abortions all the way through the 9th month. Most pro-choice people don't want babies to have their skulls crushed as they are born. I get that. And these people are mostly OK with me.
I will tell you. Even though I am 100% pro-life, if we lived in a world where abortion after 6 weeks was banned, I wouldn't be fighting right now. I'd be pretty dang happy. I still think all human life should be protected and is deserving of rights. BUT, my issue right now is that even though these people are moderate, the laws are not.
7 states! And D.C.! Abortion is legal throughout all 9-10 months. So until the democratic party and pro-choice movement changes their stance here, I view this as extremist. All 9 months is extremist in my view.
What counts are the laws people vote for. And sadly, I think many are unaware.
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 Originally Posted by Summerlander
Abortions are safer the earlier they are carried out, so, inform yourself before engaging in a debate.
So I will say again as I guess you missed it. There is no need to abort a baby early because the mother might experience problems later in pregnancy. There's a good chance that if problems arise, the baby will already be viable. If and when problems arise, the baby can be delivered early, based on an OB's medical assessment. If the baby is viable, then they have a fighting chance. If the baby is not viable, then at least everyone tried and did the best they could. The baby can die in peace rather than be dismembered. No one is suggesting a woman die from pregnancy.
Did you watch the video I posted?
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
I don't know about America, but in the UK, it is performed before 24 weeks and no later.
24 weeks is 6 months pregnant. The baby is capable of feeling, is conscious, and experiences pain. That is atrocious to me. Do you know how a 24 week baby is aborted?
Firstly, the cervix is dilated 24-72 hours in advance. Then, the mother receives local anesthesia (nothing for the baby). Then, a weighted speculum is used to open the birth canal. Then, a sopher clamp is used to dismember the limbs of the baby, starting with the legs, then the arms, the torso, and lastly the head, which is then crushed. All while the baby is still alive. Lastly, the abortionist must assemble all of the limbs and baby parts to make sure the entire baby is removed from the mother, and nothing left behind that could cause infection.
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
If you are not happy about how long pregnant women are allowed to leave it (at their own peril, not yours, mind you!) in your country, perhaps you should contest it on the basis that an unborn baby at 9 months already has a formed brain, but if that's the reason then you have absolutely no leg to stand on in reasoning that all types of abortions must me outlawed.
I contest it on the basis that ALL humans deserve equal rights. 9 months, 6 months, 13 years, and 2 weeks old. Whether or not the baby has a formed brain does not change my opinion, however, there is no question that it is worse. Simply because not ONLY are we stealing a life, but now we are adding suffering and cruelty on top of it.
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
You are simply wrong when you include embryos because they are not people! They are not human beings and to say so is simply deluded. I don't know what pseudoscientific sources you are looking are but real science does not support your view.
OK, I guess you need more? Princeton University is pseudoscience? Doctors are pseudoscience? Biologists are pseudoscience?
"When Does Human Life Begin?
Fertilization
Life Begins at Fertilization with the Embryo's Conception. "Development of the embryo begins at Stage 1 when a sperm fertilizes an oocyte and together they form a zygote." "Human development begins after the union of male and female gametes or germ cells during a process known as fertilization (conception)." Source: https://www.princeton.edu/~prolife/a...yoquotes2.html
From the American College of Pediatricians:
"ABSTRACT: The predominance of human biological research confirms that human life begins at conception—fertilization. At fertilization, the human being emerges as a whole, genetically distinct, individuated zygotic living human organism, a member of the species Homo sapiens, needing only the proper environment in order to grow and develop. The difference between the individual in its adult stage and in its zygotic stage is one of form, not nature. This statement focuses on the scientific evidence of when an individual human life begins." Source: https://acpeds.org/position-statemen...an-life-begins
American College of Pediatricians is pseudoscience?
If an embryo or a fetus is not human, then what is it? We know it's alive. We know it's growing. We know it's self directed. We know it can't be a member of any other species. We know it's DNA is unique. We know it's not part of the mother or father. So what is it then?
Now, the argument of personhood, as I said before, is very different from the argument of being a human. This argument can be made. I disagree with this argument, and I think it's full of slippery slopes, but it can be made.
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
If, as we believe, human embryos are human beings who deserve the same basic respect we accord to human beings at later developmental stages, then research that involves deliberately dismembering embryonic humans in order to use their cells for the benefit of others is inherently wrong.
I agree. I don't think we should be playing with human life like that. But once again, we're really straying from the issue of elective abortion.
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
In short, cells don't have brains and, although considered organic matter which constitutes life (as opposed to inorganic) a dozen of them do not make a person—the levels of cognition that necessitate a brain are simply not present; embryos are merely a mechanism in potentia. As I explained before, a lifeform isn't necessarily conscious. You ought to look at neurological evidence: the embryo is not capable of suffering and to say so is baseless and goes against everything we know so far about functional cerebral matter and its mental faculties. Human development beginning at fertilisation does not support the erroneous notion that at the initial stages it is already a fully-fledged human being, as it were, it just says the cells mechanistically divide and could lead to a healthy baby if allowed to progress. (By the way, no guarantees the unborn will be healthy or optimally functional as a person to say nothing of the fact that nature has its miscarriages.)
So you agree that they are alive - good start.
As I said before, and as I quoted that beautiful text earlier, "It follows that it cannot be the case that some human beings and not others are intrinsically valuable, by virtue of a certain degree of development. Rather, human beings are intrinsically valuable in the way that allows us to ascribe to them equality and basic rights in virtue of what they are; and all human beings are intrinsically valuable."
I don't ascribe human value to how developed ones brain is, or any other condition. I ascribe human value based simply on what they are (human). Not what they can do or cannot do. That's a slippery slope.
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
By the way, no guarantees the unborn will be healthy or optimally functional as a person to say nothing of the fact that nature has its miscarriages.
That doesn't take away ones humanity.
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 Originally Posted by Summerlander
There is no divine, higher power driving the process of gestation, Hilary, no evidence that such is true whatsoever other than basic and molecular cause-and-effect.
And you say that as fact? You can prove it? You can prove there's no divine source of any kind? Because you're stating it like fact rather than a viewpoint. At least I stated mine as a viewpoint, and admittedly, not fact. I can't prove there's any divine nature just as you can't prove there isn't.
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
I know you said you are not religious but I suspect you are allowing your New Age beliefs, which, let's face it, are part of and influenced by religions such as Wicca and Madame Blavatsky's spiritualism, to cloud your judgement here. You claim that science supports you but it really doesn't and the epistemology of the articles you provided are fallacious. At heart, your stance comes from a position of sentimentalism and, in part, a phony kind of sanctimony.
I have spiritual views. My spiritual views shouldn't be coming into this discussion. For me, this issue is about human rights, and the fact that abortion is a moral wrong.
Believe it or not, people's views ARE allowed to be affected by their spiritual or religious beliefs, no matter what they are. And that does NOT make their views wrong, as you are suggesting.
Perhaps you might need to do a little bit of soul searching to come to an understanding of other points of views out there in the world. Maybe you are a little biased as an atheist. Possible?
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
False and false again. DNA is nothing but molecular codes with 'instructions', so to speak, with the potential to lead to something else as I have already explained before. The precursor of the offspring is 50% the mother's genetic makeup and 50% the father's, which, having been shuffled leads to an original mitosis of new tissue growth not wholly or necessarily unlike that of the parents. It is, therefore, a fallacy to claim that embryos are completely self-directed. It is all a set of instructions from nature's structures whose action cascades through time in a deterministic process.
It's not 50/50 actually, there are mutations that are entirely unique to the child. So you're wrong on that one.
"Embryonic development has been traditionally seen as an inductive process directed by exogenous maternal inputs and extra-embryonic signals. Increasing evidence, however, is showing that, in addition to exogenous signals, the development of the embryo involves endogenous self-organization." Source: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8185431/
Self-direction is helpful because it shows to us that the embryo is NOT a part of the mother's body, but rather a separate entity.
Are you arguing that an embryo is part of the mother's body?
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
Let's make an important distinction here: I am the first one to say that generally you are not a fully mature/developed human being until you reach around the age of 25, when your cortex is fully formed and protected by myelin. But to all intents and purposes here, and if you insist on being pedantic, let us say that, when I refer to a baby as a fully-fledged human being I mean a physically recognisable anthropoid with developed and functional organs for his or her survival to bear fruit, albeit in their infancy. This does not, as far as I'm aware, take away from my argument. And it is not about talking—again you seem to deliberately misconstrue my argument—it is about sentience and awareness. Babies are already capable of suffering. The cry of a newborn says it all.
Fetuses are also capable of suffering. Some emerging science is showing as early as 11 weeks gestation. Most science shows from 15-20 weeks. Starting in the later first trimester, during an abortion, the fetus will move away from abortion instruments and attempt to fight for its life.
You say it doesn't take away from your argument. But it's a slippery slope. At what point does a human become a human? When they're born? That's a very grey line. Babies can be born at 30 weeks, 40 weeks, 25 weeks. Natural or induced. Why is it that the 3 inch birth canal (or C-section) determines ones species?
Sentience and awareness happen before birth. We don't know exactly when. I say, let's err on the side of caution. There's nothing that says there isn't some form of human consciousness at conception. There very well might be, even if there are not sensory inputs or brain to interpret the consciousness.
Not a human?
No consciousness yet?
This is different from a newborn baby?
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
The cry of a newborn says it all.
"In 2005 New Zealand researchers conducted one of the most influential studies Trusted Source on babies crying in the womb, providing an ultrasound video of what they interpreted to be a crying baby. They broke the cry down into multiple steps, or a series of body motions and breathing (rather than just sound) to confirm that the baby was crying.
Before this study, only four behavioral, fetal states had been proven to exist, including quiet, active, sleep, and awake states. However, the findings revealed a new state, referred to as 5F, which is the state of crying behaviors." Source
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I will continue this discussion with you later. Really, this has taken my whole day. And it's the last thing I've wanted to do. But, I will do it, because other opinions need to be heard.
 Originally Posted by Summerlander
I am very disappointed in you and cannot express enough how abhorrent I think your extremely dictatorial right-wing views are.
I kindly ask that you increase the level of respect in your following posts to me.
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