oops, I missed that.

okay, I think I have a vague idea of what you're trying to say, Idol. basically you're pointing out that the ideal relationship consists of a dominant/masculine person and a submissive/feminine person (regardless of gender), and that the typical homosexual relationship consists of either two feminine men or (I don't know if you've included lesbians) two masculine women, which is problematic and potentially detrimental...? is that close? and have you proposed a solution somewhere in your jabberwocky that I overlooked?

also:
Ps. Xaqaria, your sig has epiphanied me!
LOL. I was not aware that the word "epiphany" could be used as a verb.