If you havent had an LD yet, you will have to draw inspiration from those that have... and believe me it is worth it! You will see places you have never seen before...places that are better than real life. You will do things you cant do in real life (I could give you a list of what I have done). You will experience love like you have never felt before. And it will seem real to you! Once you experience it I think then motivation isnt a problem.