I guess it kind of depends. When someone asks me what's up, I usually base an answer on how genuinely it seems like they're asking the question, if that makes sense. When it's in response to someone I don't really know well, I usually do give at least a short description of what I'm up to, unless I really am up to "not much", which is not uncommon lol. When people ask how I am, I never say that I'm good if I'm not, however, as you say for the sake of avoiding awkwardness, if I don't know them well I'll usually respond with something like "eh, you?", and if they really want to know what's wrong I figure they'll probably have some follow-up questions. When people ask how my weekend was I take it as a more direct question, if you ask me that you better be prepared for a legitimate response. I feel I tend to answer casual questions pretty genuinely as long as I feel those questions were genuinely being asked. I don't often get involved in casual conversation with people I don't know well, though. |
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