i understand how you feel like it's something to be kept secret. typically i'll talk about dreams or my near obe experiences when the convo steers in that direction, but only with someone i know well and won't think i'm weird when i tell them i once popped out my 'second arm' when i meant to move my flesh arm lol. my brother as well whose had 2 ld's, his first describing it as so real that he thought he died and was in heaven. i'm just trying til the day i have my first ld and share it with him.