Thread: How bittersweet is lucid love, securely mentally binding

Originally Posted by Mes Tarrant

Wow. You must realize that this is quite unhealthy, right? It's even a little bit frightening. I would seek psychiatric help ASAP, for your own sanity, and for the sanity of the people around you.

I've had dreams where I've had children, and I've woken up feeling very empty, like I was missing something, because I knew they didn't exist. I haven't forgotten how those dreams made me feel... but I'm not sad about them or anything because I'm planning on having kids in the future anyway. Who knows, maybe your "fate" is to meet a girl named Sarah in real life.

I don't think the connection between her name and that song is interesting. In fact, that being your favorite song perfectly explains her name.

Anyway, it sounds like you are deteriorating psychologically, and you gotta seek help. Lucid dreaming is supposed to enhance your waking life, not destroy it.

I disogree, it's just a dream girl, nothing more, nothing less. And maybe he chooses to be with this person (this DC) throughout his life (which is doubtful) who's to say that would deteriorate him psycologically, if anything I will do the same when I master lucid dreaming, sure it's not a real person in the dream but DC's can be very real, and seem to think independently.

I'd way reather be with a DC I love (implying I can see them anytime, with lucid mastery) then a real person I am in some casual relationship with. (and why not both at the same time)