Thanks for your reply NyxCC! It's nice to have confirmation that your own way of thinking is the right one. Funny though, how just after writing this, for the first time since I started my DJ on dec, 5, I had a dream experience in the actual here and now. And also a first, a false awakening.
I decided to follow the procedure proposed in ETWOLD (possible in the weekend). Went to bed at 23. Set the alarm for 5 o'clock. Got out of bed and stayed up for 2.5 hrs. Spent the last half our thinking about how I was going to dream, have a lucid dream, realise that I'm dreaming. Back in bed I did SSILD. Woke up out of a dream to go the toilet. Tried WILD falling a sleep again. Woke up, very heavy and drowsy, turned to my husband to make love to him. A car drives up to our house, somebody gets out and welcomes our dogs. Somebody opens the door( door is always open). A small dog runs into our bedroom, the door was slightly open. The dog puts its paws on the edge of the bed and licks my face. Someone calls:"Frika!" That's E-J's dog. E-J's face turns up at the door. My husband gets up. I'm just too heavy, too sleepy to get up. After a little while my husband comes back, pulls back his part of the covers. He's angry that I'm not getting up when there's a visitor. After that... I wake up for real...
Later, at breakfast, my husband says something that makes me think of another fragment. Wrote that down in the snippets-thread because it was so funny.