Fucking heart palpitations I can feel them in my throat and they FUCKING SUCK. And they scare me so much D: |
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BF = Boyfriend. |
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Last edited by Puffin; 02-16-2012 at 02:11 AM.
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Fucking heart palpitations I can feel them in my throat and they FUCKING SUCK. And they scare me so much D: |
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Last edited by ThePreserver; 02-16-2012 at 02:19 AM.
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Last edited by Linkzelda41; 02-16-2012 at 02:23 AM.
Puffin... why DO you hang out with her? I really don't want to sound rude, but she sounds like a stuck-up and very insecure bitch. If all she's ever doing is judging your relationship when hers is clearly no better than yours if not much worse, and you can't even bring yourself to talk to her more than once in a long period of hanging out, then you don't need to be hanging out with her! She sounds like a terrible friend and from what I gather neither you nor your boyfriend have done anything at all to deserve this. You don't have to take that from her when clearly all she cares about is convincing herself that she's doing well by bragging about her crappy situation to you. Really... just stop hanging out with her. Let her know that you're done with her shit, and if she has a problem with it then maybe she should've tried being a nicer person. :T |
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@ Link; |
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We all live in a kind of continuous dream. When we wake, it is because something,
some event, some pinprick even, disturbs the edges of what we have taken as reality.
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Gaaah this is how forum retarded I am, I had a correspondence with melanieB I think it was, on a thread SOMEWHERE, where we talked about fondue. I thought it was funny that she said her dad made fondue accidentally with red wine and it stretched to the ceiling. I made mine with white wine, but it also stretched to the ceiling! I even took a photo of Danny stretching it, but I can't find the original thread hwere we were talking about it. I searched everyyyyyyyyyyywhere. So I'm posting the picture here, oh well: |
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Last edited by OpheliaBlue; 02-16-2012 at 02:49 AM.
Well, don't beat yourself up about it. If she was a nice friend before then I can understand why it'd be hard to want to stop being friends with her now. And that really sucks about your situation, but I can promise you that after high school things will get better, especially if you go to college. After public school you kind of get to redefine yourself and finally meet new people, and most of the people you knew during it will go off on their own life paths anyway. When I graduated I actively talked to more people that I would've called friends than your entire graduating class (is it really that small? o.o) on a regular basis. It's only been two and a half years now, and how many of them do I still ever really talk to? Two. Three during summer break. And even them I barely ever actually see, I just keep up with them because they're good, real friends, unlike the rest who were basically friends just because we all had to endure school together. But all of my closest friends now that I hang out with frequently I met after public school, and none of them even through college. And in college I made tons of more casual friends whose interests were much closer to mine and just generally enjoyed the atmosphere so much more. Things WILL get better. In the meantime, I hope your talk with her goes well, but remember to hold your ground if it doesn't. No one ever has the right to treat you like that and you don't ever have to give into them if they do. |
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Last edited by Alyzarin; 02-16-2012 at 03:01 AM.
Tommo, first off, raising a kid IS a chore. ESPECIALLY if she has to do it alone even 80% of the time. But a great joy should come from it as well. Everyone gets overwhelmed from time to time. She'd be inhuman not to feel stressed out. |
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Hey, Puffin, it sounds like she is placing all her own issues with her own relationship on to you and your relationship. She may not even be aware she is doing it. It sounds like she may in for a sad future. |
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Ophelia, I don't think it was me with whom you discussed fondue. We both responded to Zhaylin regarding cream cheese but that's the only thing I can think of that even closely resembles food. |
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And don't tell me I dreamt it |
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Tommo: I agree with everything you're saying, but it's just like Zhay said, it can be tough doing most of the work alone. I'm not saying he doesn't do anything. I enjoy the time I spend with my son, definitely. Don't doubt that. It's not that I would like to leave my son with my husband all the time. I absolutely enjoy spending every minute every day with him. But you see, every now and then, I think I deserve a little me time, too. I mean, he's not that bad; however, I do have to ask permission to take a shower when he's just sitting on his ass playing video games. You know what I mean? It's like because he works and I don't have a job (bc I'm going to school, taking care of my son and housework) then in his free time, watching his son is "babysitting". |
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In my head.... girl buying hundreds of these and giving them to her boyfriend. |
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Last edited by tommo; 02-16-2012 at 06:07 AM.
I speak from the perspective of a parent of two kids, and it sounds like you recognize your feelings for what they are. |
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Ugh... my first hubby sounds a lot like (though much worse) Suena's, which is why I empathize so much. |
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Your friend's jealous, plain and simple. She herself may not realize it but I think it's safe to say that she's more than just a little green. She's probably annoyed by the fact that despite the amount of time she spends with her boyfriend (plus the sex), you two seem to be better off. She probably doesn't think its fair or w/e, that's why she's being so bitchy. Her boyfriend behaved a certain way when he came bowling, and then she saw how your boyfriend was behaving in the same situation, that probably ticked her off. Your boyfriend is doing what she wishes her's was doing. That's my guess anyway. Just tell her that she needs to stop being a bitch (in a nicer way, of course) or else the three of you can't hang out together any more (at least until she learns to control herself). You might want to reduce the amount of time she spends around your boyfriend regardless though. |
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Last edited by GavinGill; 02-16-2012 at 07:37 AM.
Thanks again and again. My god, if I just posted in this forum everyday I'd always feel like I can manage it. (Don't worry, I won't.) It's funny, him and his friend are here right now and they're both driving me crazy. |
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For me it's the opposite. I get the 2 day lag with my savings account. Like, I post $200 in my son's college fund for example, but it doesn't post for two business days, when it says it will 'withdraw IMMEDIATELY' |
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Last edited by Linkzelda41; 02-16-2012 at 08:38 AM.
It seems like a direct chat would make stuff like this so much easier to talk about. |
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Last edited by melanieb; 02-16-2012 at 06:19 PM. Reason: typos
Instead of a transfer, or a check, perhaps try dealing in cash? What I mean is, withdraw cash from one account, then, turn around and make another transaction to deposit the money in to another account. Banks can't put a hold on cash, in my experience. With checks, get them cashed by the issuing bank, and then deposit them. I did that for a while some years back because I hated the hold period of up to 7 days for out-of-state checks. No problem with that any longer, but it was a pain years back. |
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There's a gathering at my friend's house this weekend with no parents. My ex and her bf will be there, her bf was one of my good mates till they started going out. After that, we just didn't talk. Without going into details, it still kinda peeves me off and it there is some hurt. It's not that I think of her anymore or anything, but when I see them together, there's a sense of betrayal. :/ |
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