Originally Posted by Darkmatters
I've debated posting this for some time now. It almost feels too personal - too revealing. And I'm not sure quite what is revealed by it. But I don't think it's good.
I had a few dreams in which I committed rape.
And looking back, I'm not sure but I might have been lucid in them. This was before I really knew what lucidity was, though I had experienced it randomly a couple times. In these sex dreams though if I was lucid it was with an extremely low level of awareness.. in fact the only reason I say I might have been lucid was because of a sudden surge of excitement, which might have been more because of the sex or just a part of the dream itself.
The dreams were all pretty similar so I'll just generally describe them.
It would start with finding myself in an undefined space facing a woman. It seems like the dreams started this way. or at least now I can't remember if anything led up to this. So, I find myself before a woman and I experience a sudden overwhelming surge of excitement and decide I'm going to just grab her and start having my way with her. Writing this now, it sure does sound like I might have been lucid.
So anyway, I grab and I start forcing myself on her... and yes, the more I remember this the more I believe I must have been lucid - I certainly didn't believe it was a real life situation... the reason I got excited and decided to do this is because I knew it was a dream and there could be no real harm to anyone. Still I don't feel good about it.
Anyway, the main thing about these dreams - I always hated they way they end. They never lasted more than a few seconds... just long enough for the woman to look me right in the eye and get a growing look of horror and revulsion on her face and her body would grow cold and immobile. It was basically as if she died right there in my arms horrified at what I was doing to her. I would always wake up immediately afterwards and feel terrible. I wondered what the hell was wrong with me that I would dream such a terrible thing, and I'd feel depressed and awful for the entire day if not longer.
If you don't know its a dream, I'd say that its slightly disturbing.. but even then, you are not truly yourself. Some times you can be reduced to your Id, and do pretty much whatever you feel like. I think its safe to say, we've all done something shameful or disturbing in our non-lucid dreams... but this is normal, and you aren't always yourself.
When you are lucid, I see no problem with forcing a DC to do whatever. I've also done this before, and yes I've seen the horrified and scared expressions. Some may find this disturbing, but I actually find it sort of funny. Now, real rape is anything but funny - let me put that out there. Its a horrible horrible thing, and it does a lot of emotional damage. I would never wish it on anyone, nor do I think its something to laugh about... but this isn't really rape. Obviously, there is no one there except you. That scared look, the attempt to get away, the struggle... its all just a fabrication. So, why do I find it funny? Well, its sort of weird that your mind goes through all the trouble to do that... it makes so little sense, its sort of comical.
It reminds me of when I played Duke Nukem as a teenager. There'd be a room with strippers, where you could give them money... and if you shot them, they blew up and money fell out. There was absolutely no point to that, and I thought it was hilarious. I still chuckle when I think back to that. That being said, I am very strongly against the killing of strippers. I would never even contemplate killing a stripper, nor do I find killing a real stripper funny in any way... but its a video game... and so is your dream!
Most people think morals are rooted in religion. They aren't. Its about not doing to things to others that you wouldn't want happen to you. It makes society work. If we didn't follow moral codes, and just did what ever we wanted, so would everyone else... and then the world would be a miserable place for everyone. In other words, its about who you hurt... and you aren't hurting anyone in your sleep.
If I felt guilty for the things I did in my dreams... boy oh boy, would I dread going to sleep. I think its a great sport to try and fry as many little dream characters as I can. I throw them, I electricute them, I shoot them. I make Stalin look like a nice friendly guy... whats the harm? It can be really entertaining some times.
I guess my point is that if you feel guilty for doing something to your own imaginary creation, you are missing the point. Your actions are literally 100% disconnected from everyone else in the world. Moral rules don't apply... and don't feel bad for your imaginary dream character! They are you (technically you can't rape yourself). Just don't do any of this in real life, and you'll be fine.
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