Right Sang! Let's see how well I can answer all this. I figure the best example to answer your question would be go through how I acquired my most recent 'dream guide' and pick out different details to discuss. Then I may also link that situation to my dream journal entries you can see the effect my real life action had in constituting a dream later on.
So IRL I binge watch YouTube; and I went through a phase of watching Kingdom Hearts videos. During that time, I was also struggling with some university subjects (not due to the binge watching lol! But instead due to a character I tried to make a dream guide but was not cooperating; and I had made that dream character the 'academic specialist'; so I had to find a replacement fast to clean up the mess that this one caused with a faulty commitment). So yeah, as I was watching some Kingdoms Hearts videos, I just seemed to click with Riku and I'm thinking 'right, you're coming with me'. That's exactly what I said to myself.
I've got my IRL task journal open and apparently the 21st of May is the first time I wrote with the intention of putting Riku on the dream guide team (therefore, the path to making him a persistant character). At first, I didn't use his name but rather (for fun really), I decided to give him an ID number to allow him to voluntarily show up first of all. So with the first letter I wrote to him, I started my name, age, and the country I'm from. If you treat them like real people, then they are likely to be more real to you and treat you like a person when you do meet them. Hence always make sure you introduce yourself and put yourself out there for the dream character you want, to get to know you better. And then if they know you, my belief is they also know how your brain works and therefore what your dream tendencies are. EG for you. You write a letter to the person you want to recruit. You go: "Dear xxx, I'm Sang, I'm 30 (eg) years old and I'm from the United States". You then might go on to say "I was wondering if you could come and see me one night to help me with a problem I have. I'd like someone to teach me how not to be so horny when I'm in a lucid dream". Have fun and write the letter the way you want it. Give some history about yourself but also state what you want from them and ask if it's possible to have their help.
So the first time I wrote to Riku was on the 21st of May and I immediately had a dream that night. Go to both instances of Dream No. 658 to see the fall out of my first letter. By me treating Riku like a real person in my journal, I reckon that allowed reason for the scene with Roxas as I did not even mention any other KH member in my letter, but yet that happened. There were also some aspects in Dream No. 659 but I don't see them as significant as 658.
So then after that person appears in a dream, the next day I go to my journal and think 'what do I want to do with them next?'. I wrote another letter to Riku on the 24th of May to address what happened in the last dream as well as to encourage him to come to subsequent dreams. I also wrote to my female dream guide on the 25th of May (that I've had since 2016), and a line I think might catch your attention is "In the dream world, he hasn't seemed to come since Saturday (23 May) morning when he tried to talk to me for the first time. Is he pissed off with me because he thinks I was trying to fob him off by repeatedly waking up?". So then, this constituted Riku to come again on the 26th of May if you look at Dream 661 B, and this was like the first time Riku finally took the time to 'know his dreamer'. So then on the day of the 26th of May, I took to write to thank Riku for appearing in that dream. That letter is when I also decided to 'tell him' of the damage my previous 'dream guide attempt' had caused; so that's when I etched Riku's 'academic specialist' identity into him.
Between the 27th and 30th of May, this is where I addressed Riku's age and appearance. This is because there was one minor dream, where the dream put facial hair on Riku (gave him a thick ass beard), whereas if you look up images of Riku, he's not supposed to have a beard! So in my task journal, I put boundaries for what the dream can make Riku look like. I said his height can be between x and x. He is to have no facial hair. Appropriate ages that Riku can be under are between 16 and 25.
30th of May is where I started to set specific dream tasks. They were things such as: "Continue in-person engagement with him", "Have him meet another dream guide", "Have him help you in any way you can to help you complete your degree", "Help him try to find Sora". Notice the last task? That task wasn't for him, it was for me. With the kind of character Riku is, I thought I'm more likely to keep him as a good dream guide if I give something back to him, give him a reason to stay rather than being afraid that he may lose interest.
3rd of June, I decided to write to the 'Fairy Godmother' due to inspiration from the KH3Re:Mind scene. In this letter, I stated that I was getting some appearances from Riku, but was still struggling to have any significant moments with him; so I kinda asked if she could hurry him along a little; lo and behold, a dream constituted that very night: Dream No. 665, AND, it was unexpectedly lucid! In the letters, I had been asking Riku to give me an exact number between 16 and 25 for his dream-age. He responded in the last part of No. 665. I could keep going but it will take FOREVER. I think this is enough for you to see where I'm going with this. Perhaps I'll just say a little more.
On the 17th of June, I had my tax exam with the realisation that I had to get 35/60 or more to pass the subject. I immediately took a nap after the exam was done and this dream unexpectedly came: Dream No. 670N.
Secondly, IRL, I thought I had overcome my lifelong fear of elevators. In-fact, my previous primary dream guide 18-Volt helped big-time with this. I never wrote to Riku that I was scared of elevators, but then how on Earth did Dream No. 681 happen? And that dream took place only a few days before I thought I had to go back to IRL campus classes on Level 3 because I failed a subject. But I ended passing everything and getting my degree. Like I thought I had eliminated that problem with 18-Volt, but subconsciously, Riku's like "nah uh, you've still got that problem".
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