Hi, I have been watching and reading on this site for about 4 weeks now and decided to join up Lately i have been having dreams where i know i'm dreaming but i dont become lucid, can anyone tell me why??

e.g : I say in my dream "it wont matter if i flood the house because if i dont make a big deal of it they will just think it's part of my dream"

My ability to lucid dream of late has gone a bit dry but i get SP alot and that always throws me into a lucid dream, i just cant understand why a dream like this wouldnt make me realise i'm dreaming because in a way i have realised, sorry sounds crazy lol, any help would be good, thankies