 Originally Posted by Zoth
Interesting links flowofmysoul ^^
Since you are here, would you mind answering a couple questions for us (it seems you're the right person to ask to):
1. If you are wrong and you aren't experiencing shared dreams, what would you say you have been experiencing?
2. What would make you change your mind regarding the existence of shared dreams? What would convince you that they aren't possible/real?
2. Why do you think there's barely any studies pointing to the existence of shared dreams?
To start there is no such thing as shared dreaming. Sharing minds, global consciousness, telepathy, any of these terms are more valid then shared dreaming.
1. If I am wrong. It depends on a situation, similar communications between two or more people might lead to similar dreams. Big world events, might lead to similar dreams. Living the same daily life as your partner does, might lead to similar dreams between two of you. And so on, depends on situation.
2. Lack of success. More and more lack of success.
3. If you are talking about public studies. Its a very complicated subject to study. Most people think shared dream is similar to waking life meetup, you look at each other, you talk, you wake up and recall it. No, its not like that, at least for now. There are many different scenarios, lucid vs non lucid dreamer, non lucid vs lucid, lucid dreamer vs awake person, non lucid vs awake person, lucid vs lucid, non lucid vs non lucid..
Lets take an example where one person is sleeping and is lucid dreaming and another person is also sleeping and is lucid dreaming too. You will not see each other as you look in real life, you would see each other of what you are in a particular dream(of what you are on a subconscious level). For example I like using quotes of famous people and in dreams it feels like powers are endless. Another dreamer saw me endlessly morphing from object to people, at the same time using different quotes of different people.
Another topic is language, words that we know are often useless in shared dreams. It is a completely different experience, you won't find words to describe some feelings from shared dreams. A lot of things are interpreted symbolically and that's another problem for studies.
It is hard to give one person a complicated passcode like "uk4zS0" and ask his partner to find this password in his dreams. Even if you know the passcode, chances of you giving it right to another person are miserable, however if those numbers matter to you, if you are temporarily attached to them, your partner can find that exact password in your memories instead of looking for you and asking you the passcode. Somebody gave you that password and you have that memory, if you saw it somewhere, then it should be in your head.
Dreaming person vs dreaming person experience is weird a fuck If somebody wants to study this, they should start with dreaming vs non dreaming.
Even when I had many successful shared dreams, I still tried to look at it from a sceptic view. A major symbolical sync isn't something you can rely on. You need to look for a sync that is weird, out of place and chances of such lucky sync between several people should be almost impossible.
I will give you one example. (It was was like 1 year ago)There were three of us trying to share a dream. Last few weeks most of our dreams were on topic of one big tree, where we tried to meet and etc.. Nothing weird, just green grass around and a big tree, whole week. Then one night I decided to change topic, without telling it to anyone. I appeared in a village, it was dark and there was a girl standing there, I called for two other people whom I tried to share a dream with and then I decided to do something out of place, so they can notice me and notice what I did. In that dream I ripped her head off and her head floating straight upwards as well as her blood. Next day I was waiting for two replies from my partners, I received two emails and in both they saw a girls head ripped off and floating straight upward and it all happened in a village. That is only one sync mentioned from this dream, we had two more in the same dream.
So what are the chances of this happening randomly? Nobody mentioned village or girl or her head before, it was supposed to be the same green grass big tree thing. And this isn't the best sync we got.
 Originally Posted by sivason
I get that it is a crappy thing to debate 'beliefs' that can not be demonstrated
I agree here. Saying figuratively. That's why I am improving every day, so one day I can come and do this with ~100% success rate on any given person.
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