Thread: Apparently Inevitable For Me To Have Children?

If you don't want to be a mother , then so be it! Don't let anyone tell you what you can and cannot do!! It's your own goddam life, and your in charge of it!! There's absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting to be a mother and not wanting to have kids!! It's not like the world needs more babies anyway!!
You're gonna have to tell them sooner or later, so do it now and get over with it!!

EDIT: Also, even IF it is a phase, there is nothing to be done until the phase is over. So, either way your right!

EDIT2: Maybe it's not wise to march right in to them and tell them the whole truth. Try to tell them in peices, you know, lay it on them bit by bit, but if there isn't much time left, then make the bits bigger. Whatever happens, be confident that you will end this the way you like! In the end, you are indipendant. As a matter of fact, this is not a phase that YOU are going through, but a phase YOUR PARENTS are going through! If they want grandchildren, then too bad! You are not going to ruin your life for that! Plus, you have your brother, so they will have grandchildren. Don't let them control you. So, as you can see, they have no right in any aspect of this issue. Don't worry, everything will turn out the way you want it to. Plus, it's YOUR body. Case closed. End of discusion. Have that confident, powerful and rightous attitude, and I'm sure you're confident, powerful and rightous too!