You know this almost seems like you're living a double life, you are very blessed I wish I could do the same thing. Unless she is just a part of a order that your mind made in order to min mick the law and order of your world, or she is seeing your life through your eyes and is fascinated and wants to recreate the world you see. She may also base the things that you experience on the things you like. That's just a possibility although I am unsure.

Or what is also a possibility is that you are experiencing stress in your life and you created a world in your dreams where you can escape too. I am not saying this is the case I don't know, just looking at all possible angles. Although i am sure I am completely wrong.