Why would you not want to lucid dream?

[ooflendoodle]

I've told a ton of people about lucid dreaming, about how awesome it is, how its realistic, the cool stuff you can do, so why would they not try it out? I don't get it, does it sound like too much work? Is it just too weird? No one who I've told lucid dreams about has even tried it. Why?

[Xovern]

Ever told somebody about an awesome show say firefly, and they seem uninterested in it until a couple months after you are done? its laziness or unwilling to try that does that.

[ooflendoodle]

Yeah that's probably right... I know a ton of people like that (myself included), it just sucks that they're missing out on something so awesome.

[zebrah]

Meh people don't realize what lucid dreaming is until they experience if for themselves. I've told some class mates but they just seem to forget. A lot of other people think it just sounds to out there. The best thing is that you have discovered it and can enjoy lucidity for the rest of your life.

[Hukif]

There are several options, one, they don't believe it. Two, they think that despite it sounding awesome, it is just your crazyness that makes it so, the experience itself isn't so great. Three, they are lazy. Four, must be only for a few people. Five, too much work. Six, too busy. Choose one. Personally, only the people who had a LD after I told them about it, started practicing, before that it would only be "Oh, cool, wish I could do it"

[changed]

Society doesn't think about dreams as anything of importance. To them dreams are just random ocurrences that happends every once and awhile. Some people don't even know that we dream every night. Some people think they don't dream at all. These people don't know that if they didn't dream, they would go insane. When you talk about Lucid Dreaming, people just don't care. This isn't true for everybody though, there are people like you and me that hear about "Lucid Dreaming" and are instantly interested and pick up the hobby. If I don't die in the Marines, then I am going to become an author and write a fictional story about Lucid Dreaming. If this fiction I write is good and becomes popular, than wether or not if the readers become interested in the subject, they will still be less ignorant about it. I have so many great ideas for novels, hopefully I become successful at being a novelist.

[Hyu]

In my circle of friends, dreams seem to be a bit of a taboo. Most of said friends seem very uncomfortable talking about them. It's kind of unfortunate really :/

[KushyBear]

Society doesn't think about dreams as anything of importance. To them dreams are just random ocurrences that happends every once and awhile. Some people don't even know that we dream every night. Some people think they don't dream at all. These people don't know that if they didn't dream, they would go insane. When you talk about Lucid Dreaming, people just don't care. This isn't true for everybody though, there are people like you and me that hear about "Lucid Dreaming" and are instantly interested and pick up the hobby. If I don't die in the Marines, then I am going to become an author and write a fictional story about Lucid Dreaming. If this fiction I write is good and becomes popular, than wether or not if the readers become interested in the subject, they will still be less ignorant about it. I have so many great ideas for novels, hopefully I become successful at being a novelist. I wish you good luck! Most of my friends that I tell about LDs think that they're really cool. They never try to have lucids though. I've had two friends try, but they forget or school takes over for them. Most of the people I see, though, either smoke weed or do drugs. But, they never really realize how into dreaming I am xP and always say "You and your dreaming." My mom thinks I shouldn't try to control a natural thing like dreams though. I tell her I can barely control them...

[dakotahnok]

Yeah I got one person on this site (stayed for one week.) everyone else says oh cool and want nothing to do with it.

[feross]

I asked my friend why he doesn't want to. He said he feels like his dreams have meaning and doesn't want to ruin that

[Telemachus]

So far I've told 4 people, and out of those 4, only 3 have been all for it and very excited about the subject. The other simply said that she enjoys her dreams the way that they are, and wouldn't change a thing even if she could. However, I think the thing stopping most people, even if they are interested, is that lucidity mandates patience. The world today is really a quick fix society, wanting rewards in the now, not later. Those that understand delayed gratification will always reap rewards.

[KristaNicole07]

In my circle of friends, dreams seem to be a bit of a taboo. Most of said friends seem very uncomfortable talking about them. It's kind of unfortunate really :/ I can relate to this. I've always been a dreamer, but I've never felt comfortable broaching the subject of lucid dreaming (or dreaming at all) with the majority of my friends. That being said, at least us dreamers will be able to enjoy lucid dreaming for the rest of our lives, like Zebrah said. All of our friends are just missing out on an awesome experience.

[Raetin]

If every one had a lucid dream tonight, do you think they would start practicing??

[Darksoul1994]

doubt it because most would not know what was going on and probably wake up from whatever reason*cough* sex *cough* and just wake up thinking wow that was amazing but not actually know what lucid dreaming is or anything about it really... and even if some did they would'nt care for whatever silly reason such as "dude i have drugs for that!" ------------------------ EDIT to be honest i don't believe that they were meant to take on this path or at least aren't meant to just yet

[NoctemConArtist]

i think there's some degree of intelligence/critical thinking skills a person has to have to be able to recognize the sheer possibilities lucid dreaming offers.

[Bboy500]

Yeah most of my friends are like that too.... i bet if they were to just have 1 and know what it was, they would never doubt it again. thats too much to ask though ._.

[atkins513]

Well in my opinion most people may shrug it off, or give you some reason like they dont want to change their dreams, however, I believe that most think it is too far out there, or not even possible... and just figure your imagination is extra active lol... most people do not believe in it when told about it and even the mainstream media proves that. They are still trying to figure out Out of body experiences and to many it is still impossible or some kind of misnomer, when what it really is, is an unintentional wild.. lol

[Weight]

From my experience talking with friends, the people who aren't interested don't fully understand it, the problem is that they think they do. Everyone experiences different levels of lucidity in their dreams but unless you're intentionally aiming for it full lucidity is hard to stumble on. So most people experience those dreams that aren't quite lucid but maybe rather vivid and they believe they've had one and that it wasn't that special compared to their other dreams. I think if everyone had an experience of full lucidity at least once we would have a lot more dreamers out there.. And there's the laziness factor of course...why take time to mess with your dreams when you could be making money or trying to bang that girl 3 doors down? ...if only they knew.

[riverboy]

I've found this applies to a lot of things in life in general - recommending pubs, albums, movies, books etc. It led me to the conclusion that people are more concerned with their own hobbies/worries/life events to start with somebody elses. However I have learnt from this to really throw myself into anything a good friend recommends, after all if they are your close friends there's a big chance you'll enjoy it!

[MindGames]

i think there's some degree of intelligence/critical thinking skills a person has to have to be able to recognize the sheer possibilities lucid dreaming offers. Exactly my thoughts.

[Lynn]

Most of my friends think I am weird when I mention it. Although, one of my friends actually wanted to learn about it. I never see her, because she is in different classes than me. I think it is because they don't care. It is not common, so why would they want to? Most people just want to be involved in stuff because the things are popular. Lucid dreaming isn't heavily advertised, other people think it's insane. Plus, people don't like to write when they get up. Not everyone has to do that. I think the MAIN reason is because it involves hard work, and nobody likes that!

[Robot_Butler]

I think many people are turned off by the idea of being conscious during sleep. For them, sleep is a time to blank out and be dead to the world.

[atkins513]

Most of my friends think I am weird when I mention it. Although, one of my friends actually wanted to learn about it. I never see her, because she is in different classes than me. I think it is because they don't care. It is not common, so why would they want to? Most people just want to be involved in stuff because the things are popular. Lucid dreaming isn't heavily advertised, other people think it's insane. Plus, people don't like to write when they get up. Not everyone has to do that. I think the MAIN reason is because it involves hard work, and nobody likes that! Refer your friend to Dreamviews please We can all help!

[Puffin]

From what I've seen, it's considered "stupid" or "taboo", and also because it just might be too deep for some people. If only these people could have one lucid and figure it out!

[changed]

When I told my brother, he thought it was complete bullshit. I think he finaly accepts it as true now, but he still isn't interested in it. LOL, when I told him Inception was based off of lucid dreaming, he tried to argue with me and explain to me what Lucid Dreaming was. I just laughed and said " yeah I don't know what Lucid Dreaming is, I have only been doing it for two years and am the one who told you about it."